Christian Adoptions Alliance

Dakota & Jordan

Marriage Length

12 Years

Home State

Oklahoma

Denomination

Evangelical

Pets

Children

Kenlee

8 yr

Taylor

6 yr

About Us

We have been married for 12 years, and we have two amazing, biological daughters. Kenlee is 8 years old, and Taylor is 6. We have always dreamed of having a house full of kids, but when we tried to conceive our third child we began suffering recurrent miscarriages. We have endured 7 miscarriages in the last 2 years with the latest being at 14 weeks gestation. We’ve sought treatment from fertility doctors, but the cause of our losses remains a mystery. Our infertility journey has been heartbreaking, but we believe God has good plans for our family (AND FOR YOURS TOO)! We feel strongly that God has led us to adoption to grow our family.

We are looking forward to growing our family through any of the following adoption opportunities:

Type

Open , Semi-open

Gender

Any gender

Race

Any Race

Circumstances

Older children up to age Age: 3
Twins
Multiples
Sibling groups up to 3

Dakota's TESTIMONY

I grew up in church. I came to a saving knowledge of Jesus at a young age. I followed through with water baptism at seven years old. I was called to ministry from the beginning. Every life decision I’ve made has been with this calling in mind. Throughout my life so far, I've served as a youth pastor, missionary, college pastor, and now lead pastor. Following God's plan for my life daily is my ultimate goal.

Jordan's TESTIMONY

I grew up going to church with my mom. Although my dad did not become a Christian until I was in college, I come from several generations of faith-filled family on both sides. I am so thankful that I had grandparents and great-grandparents who were praying for me even when I was unaware of it. I grew up always knowing ABOUT God, but I genuinely asked Jesus to be the Lord of my life when I was about 8 years old in kids church. Even at that age, I remember my life changing, and Holy Spirit helping me make good choices. After that, I was baptized in water when I was about 10 years old, and I have continued to grow in my faith since then. Although I am far from perfect, God has been faithful to me. I strive to walk daily with Him-accomplishing His will for my life and making disciples.

I have learned that in spite of any pain I may face in this life, God is still good and still worthy of my praise. Though I have suffered great loss through infertility, God is faithful. I believe He has good plans for my family, and he wants to redeem my loss. My life is centered around my faith in Jesus as my savior, whom I put my faith in at a young age. Jesus redeemed my life from sin and death, and I believe God wants to redeem the heartbreak of infertility in my life through adoption.

Letter to you

Dear Birth Mom,

We are beyond grateful that you are taking the time to read a little more about our family. Although we cannot fully understand all that you are going through, we do know that this must be an incredibly difficult decision for you. Without even knowing you yet, we already know that you are strong, courageous, and selfless. Thank you for choosing life for your child, and thank you for considering us as adoptive parents. We are praying for you that God will give you continual strength, wisdom, and peace. If you choose us as adoptive parents to your child, please know they will be so loved, and we will love you as their birth mom as well.

We have been married for 11 years, and we have two amazing, biological daughters. Kenlee is 8 years old, and Taylor is 6. We have always dreamed of having a house full of kids, but when we began trying to have our third child we began suffering recurrent miscarriages. We have endured 7 miscarriages in the last 2 years with the latest being at 14 weeks gestation. We’ve sought treatment from fertility doctors, but the cause of our losses remains a mystery. Our infertility journey has been heartbreaking, but we believe God has good plans for our family (AND FOR YOURS TOO)! We feel strongly that God has led us to adoption to grow our family.

We pastor a church in western Oklahoma. Dakota is the lead pastor, and Jordan is the kids pastor. Jordan is also a part-time dental hygienist. Our church family is so supportive, and we love raising our kids in this community. We live about 15 minutes from Dakota’s family, and Jordan’s family is only about an hour away. Our families are a huge part of our lives, and our kids enjoy growing up with many cousins around their ages. Our kids also enjoy being spoiled by their grandparents every chance they get! Our families are excited for us to adopt, and we know they will love and accept our adopted child as their own. Kenlee and Taylor are awesome girls, and they are ecstatic to add a little sibling to our family. Kenlee is very sweet and nurturing, and Taylor is free-spirited and goofy. We have no doubt they will be great helpers and excellent role models. As a family we enjoy traveling, hiking, and going to the girls’ sporting events.

We believe God has a plan to place the right children in our family. We are open to children of all ethnicities and backgrounds, and we will do our best to learn and honor our child’s culture. We hope to nurture an open relationship with our child’s birth parents to whatever extent you feel comfortable. We believe it is best for our child to know they are loved not only by our family, but also by you. We will respect your desire for communication or distance, and we will honor you in the way we speak of you in our home. We love and appreciate your strength in choosing adoption for your child.

Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Life is not always easy. Even with the best intentions, sometimes things do not go as we planned, but we believe whole-heartedly in the redemptive power of Jesus. We believe God wants to redeem the heartbreak of infertility in our lives through adoption, and He wants to minister to you as well. Thank you so much for considering us.

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Our Christian Commitment

We are the lead pastors of a church in western Oklahoma. Jordan is also the kids pastor. We love that we get to serve in full-time ministry. Beyond our roles as pastors, there is nothing more important to us than our faith in Jesus. From the time we each became believers as children, we have strived to build our lives around what God wants for us (although we are far from perfect). Our church is extremely supportive (like family), and we love raising our children in this community.

Vision For Raising A Child

Our greatest joy in life is raising our kids to know and serve Jesus themselves. We believe it is our responsibility as parents to live out our faith as examples for our kids and also to teach them and guide them in the Bible and the way that they should go. There is nothing more important to us than discipling our kids to love Jesus.

our family video

ABOUT Dakota

Dakota enjoys reading, hiking, mission trips, video games, traveling, and family time. Dakota is laid back and quiet by nature. He is the lead pastor of a church, and he loves serving and helping others.

hiking with dad

Dakota with his parents and siblings.

Dakota preaching in Vanuatu on a mission trip

EXTENDED FAMILY

We feel so fortunate to have close relationships with our siblings and extended families. Both sets of our parents live within an hour of us, and our kids enjoy growing up with a whole crew of cousins.

Kenlee and Taylor with Grandma, Pops, Cousin Luke, and Cousin Andi at the beach

Grandma and Gramsy admiring their first granddaughter-the day Kenlee was born

Great Grandma Sue spending time with some of the grandkids

Papa, Gramsy, and the grandkids at Easter

WORK & EDUCATION

Dakota is the lead pastor at our church, and Jordan is the kids pastor. Jordan also works as a part-time dental hygienist. Dakota and Jordan both graduated from a local university with bachelor degrees.

It was a great joy for Dakota to get to baptize our oldest daughter, Kenlee, last year.

Jordan cleaning teeth as a dental hygienist

HOBBIES & INTERESTS

We love being together as a family. We like to travel together, go to ball games together, serve the church together, and play together.

Beach fun

ABOUT Jordan

ABOUT Jordan

Jordan is a kids pastor and part-time dental hygienist. Jordan enjoys hiking, bicycle riding, basketball, board games, and family time. Jordan is self-disciplined, goofy, and full of energy. Jordan loves being a mom!

sweet baby, Taylor

Our wedding day

Jordan cleaning teeth

Jordan got to be the Lioness mascot at an outreach in Mexico last summer.

EXTENDED FAMILY

WORK & EDUCATION

Kenlee

Kenlee is smart, sweet, organized, and caring. Kenlee loves playing softball and basketball. She is a hard-worker, and she excels in everything she does. She is a natural nurturer, and she loves caring for all of the younger cousins and friends.

Kenlee with cousin, Briggs. She is the best big cousin and sister!

Kenlee with Reba, the corgi. Kenlee loves all animals and bugs!

Kenlee hanging out after a softball game.

Taylor

Taylor is funny, smart, loving, and laid back. She enjoys dance, art, and swimming. Taylor is very creative, and she is the life of the party. She loves to make people laugh.

Taylor's first birthday party!

The girls love to dress up, especially as old ladies.

ABOUT OUR WORLD

ABOUT OUR HOME

We built our home in 2020 on 5 acres right outside of city limits. It is the perfect location- close to town, but with a country feel and plenty of space for the kids to play. We are so grateful for all God has blessed us with.

We love the sunrises from our front porch.

ABOUT OUR WORLD

Our family is our world. We can't wait to see how God grows our family through adoption. We love traveling with our girls, hanging out with extended family, and serving Jesus as a family.

Hiking with the family

Dakota preaching on a mission trip. We love being able to go on mission trips regularly.

Jordan dressed up as the Lioness mascot in Mexico on a missions trip last year.

Dakota and Jordan get married in 2012.